Why sometimes our blessings seem a disaster?

Sometimes our blessings seem a disaster for us. It's because we don't know how to use those blessings given to us properly. For example, you were given a chance to be a winner in a game show and you got a big amount of money, then you became arrogant after a while so this blessings will be changed to disaster like being kidnapped by bad people. Also, sometimes when we got blessings, others become jealous of what we are having and that will be the start of some arguments between you and other people. If you're also becoming successful or you're receiving some blessings, you need to compete with other people to maintain and to take care of those blessings so we can continue being successful and the happiness that we are experiencing will not fade away. In some instances, we need to be selfish with what we are having and being selfish is bad for other people without knowing why someone is acting that way and with this, they will get angry to you that will lead to a bad relationship and bad connection with the people surrounding you.