How can you say love is true?

"Love is just a word 'till someone you meet gives it a meaning. So often we say "i love you" because we fear losing someone but more often we lose them because we fear saying "i love you". You can say that love is true if you know how to sacrifice because if you are really inlove with someone you can let him free if he wished to and you can give-up something that is really important to you. You will also know how to give because you can grant his wishes . You will learn how to think of others first before yourself because you will think of his condition first before yourself and you will also do what he wanted you to do but there's always limitation.

You can accept his attitude and his status in life and lastly, you will not stop loving him for the rest of your life and the memories that you shared together will remain forever and will always have space in your heart.

For example, your love one wanted you to stop working, which is already part of your life, if you really love him, you can give up your work and let him do the work for you but all you need to do is to take care of him. Another example is if your love one wanted to have break up with you because he already have another woman to love, you can let him free because you know that when love is already gone, your relationship will not work anymore so you must learn how to sacrifice.

Why sometimes our blessings seem a disaster?

Sometimes our blessings seem a disaster for us. It's because we don't know how to use those blessings given to us properly. For example, you were given a chance to be a winner in a game show and you got a big amount of money, then you became arrogant after a while so this blessings will be changed to disaster like being kidnapped by bad people. Also, sometimes when we got blessings, others become jealous of what we are having and that will be the start of some arguments between you and other people. If you're also becoming successful or you're receiving some blessings, you need to compete with other people to maintain and to take care of those blessings so we can continue being successful and the happiness that we are experiencing will not fade away. In some instances, we need to be selfish with what we are having and being selfish is bad for other people without knowing why someone is acting that way and with this, they will get angry to you that will lead to a bad relationship and bad connection with the people surrounding you.

Why do some people derive pleasure from the misfortunes of others?

Some people derive pleasure from the misfortunes of others. It's already common for Filipino people and that's one of the characteristics of Filipinos. Sometimes, we derive pleasure because we just wanted to insult others and laugh at them. There are also times that we just want to pull them down. Just like crab mentality, this can be described by "if I can't have it, neither can you". Competitions are also common to us. We don't want others to be in higher place than us and we don't want them to defeat us in all aspects. It's just like being not willing to allow someone to escape from bad situations so they cannot get ahead or they cannot pursue what they dream to do. The first thing that comes to our mind is to be jealous of what others have that we can't have and also to be selfish and desperate to pull them down. We also take advantage to their misfortunes that's why we derive pleasure.